Anonymous asked: What is "perfect"?

Imperfection.

Yup, that’s it. Brain food, my friend.

Anonymous asked: Heartbreaks. It's the worst. They try their hardest to stay strong, but are painfully dying inside. What are some comforting words or advice to tell someone who has just broken up with someone? Especially if they made them happy?

Oh hey, questions! haha Mark and I are too busy to log onto here now but whoever asked this question, I hope you read my answer.

In my opinion, you can’t just snap a person back into happiness during heartbreak, if you could, you’d be a bad person. You need to let the person experiencing heartbreak to learn on their own, baby steps along with time and optimism are ways to accepting humility. If heartbreak seems like it’s killing you, tearing you down and you feel there is no point in going on anymore, let it be. Let it destroy you, the old you that didn’t know what to do. Once a long enough time has passed and you are able to start on your own feet again, create a new you, or make some changes. All heartbreak will do is build you back up again, ironic huh? And please, hold no grudges against the person that broke your heart, if you do hold them then you’re only creating even more break in your heart. And it’s actually kinda annoying if someone keeps saying, “I’m going to do so much better than that asshole” or “Fuck that bitch, I don’t need her”. We’re human beings, not animals.

But if you want some comforting words, all I can really say is, “It only gets better”. Fall, fall hard, fall really hard for someone. And if they leave, then learn from it and fall again! There will come that time where you think you have a strong and solid mind set and you finally have that person that stays with you. But the mind is limitless and instead of learning from the person you fall for, you will learn with them.

Heartbreak is a part of life, it’s inevitable and that’s okay, because you can take it. You don’t need to stay strong, you just need to stay. Stay in the same place, don’t go back, because that way, you’ll start where you left off and the only way to go is forward.

By Frankie Lucero

These guys don’t talk to you because your protruding essence of holiness and purity sprays the atmosphere. Anyone within a mile radius of you would instantly sense a soul much more powerful than their own. In simple terms for the crowds to understand: these guys don’t talk to you because they’re afraid of saying something that will tarnish any chances they may have with you. But you are an evolving human being, growing impervious to negativity and fronts. 

Then, there’s me. 

I was like these guys. But now, after two years of interacting with girls who are obscure and anal on what they desire, I’ve developed the tenacity and stamina to grip onto the fact that you are just like me. You are scared of not living up to someone else’s expectation in a love connection. 

Love. I surely know nothing about it. I don’t think any teenager does, and if they do, then it’s a different dialect. But I have experienced it in my grandparents’ connection. My grandmother waited over a year for my grandfather to come back from the navy, and once he did, they continued their relationship as if nothing happened. Over forty years of hardships, trials, obstacles, setbacks, smiles, and love foundations. 

But for you and I to have a blooming affiliation, we must first speak to one another. Like humans do. After that, only the present will reveal and unravel itself.

Human. That’s all we are, that’s all we ever will be. Yes, I’m going to mess up, but so are you. And if we both stay long enough, we’ll make sure it doesn’t happen as often. 

These guys don’t know anything about you. 

I do.